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Yes, I wasn't thrilled about a lot of the things he did during our relationship, but telling him so in a moment of rage after the relationship was over (and had been been for a while) wasn't productive for anyone involved. "Tearing down really never makes us feel good." I actually said this to an ex of mine via text message, about a month after we broke up, and immediately regretted it. "This is such a cheap shot," says Winter. Being wishy-washy is unhelpful to your ex's healing process and can give them the wrong idea about where things stand between the two of you. Give your reasoning during the breakup conversation, and stick with it during the aftermath. So what they want to hear is 'it's not you, it's me,' and they need to hear a reason it won't work," says Winter. "The dumpee needs to have their integrity and their ego preserved. To do so, you need to provide actual, tangible reasoning and evidence as to why you want the relationship to end.
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"I Just Don't Know Why It Didn't Work"ĭuring and after a breakup, especially with someone you care about, it's important to preserve that person's sense of desirability and worth. Flemming, "Whenever you're communicating something, the outcome or result that you would like to experience." If you've broken up with someone, and don't have any intention of getting back together, it's unfair to reach out to them to express how much you miss them, as it will inevitably give them the wrong idea. Whenever you reach out to an ex, "it's important to be very clear about your intentions," says Dr. You can't go from a breakup to just hanging out.
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"Because they don't have you in the friends basket. "If someone is in love with you, and you say that, it's a slap in the face," best-selling author and relationship expert Susan Winter tells Bustle.
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Keeping in touch after a relationship ends, and especially trying to be friends, is just too hard. When you decide to breakup with someone, you shouldn't expect to have them in your life in any capacity. Below, seven things you should definitely never, ever say. The real moral here? No matter what you feel like you want to tell your ex, unless it is for sure going to be productive in aiding one or both of you in the moving on process (which it almost never is), chances are its better left unsaid. To help you both move on, it's best to bite your tongue in most cases. Is it for connection? Is it to blow them off? Is it to make the person feel bad? No matter what our reasoning, it's important to be clear with ourselves (and our exes) about what the intentions are. Megan Flemming, a sex and relationships expert based in New York City, our desire to reach out to an ex can be for any number of reasons. Yes, it's frustrating as hell, and takes willpower of heroic proportions, but there are certain things that you should never say to an ex.Īccording to Dr. Whether it's telling them how much you miss them, or rehashing the problems in your relationship for the zillionth time, you've gotta commit yourself to keeping your mouth shut. Note: When you embed the widget in your site, it will match your site's styles (CSS).After a relationship ends, especially if it's a messy breakup, there are inevitably things that you're dying to say to your ex.
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